One of the toughest task in any wedding is searching for an ideal Jamaai or Bodhu. In bengali tradition the marriage are arranged by a person known as Ghotoks. Historically in ancient days each caste had a person called ghotoks who would maintain a register of marriages and can ascertain genealogies. In modern day's the role of ghotoks are played are
With technologies life has become easier as parents can search for potential paatro/paatri on internet but in most occassion it still done through traditional means of contacts. One of the most ideal place for such meetings are marriage ceremonies, durga poojo or any social gatherings.